If I want to be the confident, strong woman who is so happy just doing ME, that's up to ME. I once heard my Pastor say God builds the car and puts you on the road, but you're behind the …
I've made the decision to push past my boundaries and "do it anyway". To invest my time in expanding my relationships.
The divorce didn't just affect me, or my son. Although we will carry the pain and the scars of this divorce, trauma is a ripple. Slowly spreading to friends and family.
As hard as I can, I'm going to stop worrying about my ex's happiness in his new relationship, and start working on my own.
While the absence of my relationship has brought me tremendous pain, it has also shown me what's important.