If falling in love is loud and fast...falling out of love is slow and quiet.
Growth is not accidental. Success is not immediate. And with God, all things are possible.
Exactly one year ago today, I discovered my husband was having yet another affair.
I stared at the picture and was sad for my friend. Sad for what became of him. Sad, he's gone.
I've made the decision to push past my boundaries and "do it anyway". To invest my time in expanding my relationships.
The divorce didn't just affect me, or my son. Although we will carry the pain and the scars of this divorce, trauma is a ripple. Slowly spreading to friends and family.
As hard as I can, I'm going to stop worrying about my ex's happiness in his new relationship, and start working on my own.